Creative Ways to Ask Your Maid of Honour

Creative Ways to Ask Your Maid of Honour

When my best friend, Sarah, got engaged, I was thrilled. But it didn’t take long for me to realize that what I really hoped for was to play a special role in her wedding. The role of Maid of Honour, to be precise. I knew I needed to ask her in a way that was as meaningful and memorable as our friendship.

One idea that came to mind was crafting a personalized gift box. Trust me, Sarah has always had a penchant for personal touches. I decided a curated box that spoke to our shared moments would be perfect. Inside, I included a handwritten letter recounting some of our favorite memories together, a bottle of her favorite wine, and a photo of us from our first girls' trip to the coast. The pièce de résistance was a custom-made bracelet engraved with her wedding date. When Sarah opened the box, tears welled up in her eyes—happy tears, of course.

Another unique suggestion involves taking advantage of the digital age. Sarah is an avid user of streaming services, so I compiled a playlist of songs that have punctuated our friendship over the years. Within the playlist, I inserted a short voice memo asking her to be my Maid of Honour. I remember anxiously waiting as she listened, and then receiving that ecstatic call confirming she’d heard my proposal—music to my ears indeed.

If you’re looking for a more communal approach, consider hosting a small gathering. I threw a surprise dinner party with a few close friends. At some point, between the laughter and clinking glasses, I stood up and popped the question. There was something magical about sharing that moment with a circle of friends who knew us both so well. The combination of surprise, good company, and food made it an unforgettable way to secure my spot as Maid of Honour.

Choosing how to ask your potential Maid of Honour is a deeply personal decision, and each friendship is different. Reflect on what makes your relationship unique and infuse that essence into your proposal. Whatever method you choose, it’s the sincerity and thoughtfulness that will ultimately matter the most—and perhaps a touch of creativity.

So, whether it’s through a thoughtfully assembled gift, a tech-savvy playlist, or an intimate gathering, the most important thing is to ask from the heart. After all, this is just the beginning of a special journey you’re about to embark on together. Remember, your offer should resonate with your friendship’s unique rhythm and spirit. That’s how you truly make it unforgettable.